Thursday, June 21, 2018

A Traveling Family


I hail from a clan. Our family was organized by our grandmothers. The torch was passed to our parents who called often when we lived away and had their feelings bruised when they didn’t get information first hand. Now, we have the task of keeping the fam informed and corralling the crew. Around the Christmas table last year, the gang voted to take a family vacation to California to visit our son, Caleb, who is far flung on the west coast.

There were milestone birthdays on the calendar this year and it was a good year to go. The much older sister started the campaign. The niece set up a group text for “Family Vacay”. I researched accommodations and made flight reservations.  I found a vacation rental by owner where we could have together time and personal space. We counted the days and tossed in text of how we would like to spend our time.

We made a visit to see Mickey Mouse and the 18 year old got her ears. The 40 year was king of the Uber app and saw a new release movie and took the boys to a LA Dodgers baseball game. The 35 year old was all in for the beach scene, and was even ok when the temperature dropped to mid 60s because that meant no guilt for a lazy day that we tried to put on swimsuits but sweats felt better. The 30 year old played tour guide for his family from Oklahoma. He made sure we dined at the Studio City restaurant where he works.

Hubby, Doug, didn’t have a major birthday but he took some of us to the prestigious Magic Castle for shows and dinner. Our newest family member, nephew-in-law, voted for an excursion to Catalina Island. The niece-in-law made time to do some shopping in the “ can’t believe how big this mall is!” mall. Bro-in-law loves to drive and explore, and would take off and come back with a story. Sister did what she does best, went grocery shopping and kept in the kitchen filling the table with food for us to sit down and eat, family style.

There was a little something for everyone. A nice balance of tourist time and down time. The week was long enough for us to make some major memories but short enough to think it went by too quickly.

I wasn’t in charge. I waited for someone else to announce leave times and what we were doing. We laughed, and discussed, and were a family.

Maybe it’s a bit sentimental, but we all need to make memories while we can. And remember if you can always make a group tour your traveling family. We are a traveling clan, Good to Go.

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